For J, I recommend : Judge Not!
As human beings, we all naturally judge the other person based on their actions, their appearance, their conduct etc. I think that’s why the saying ‘First impression is the last impression’ came into being, because one is judged on his/her first appearance. What is worst is that one person’s judgement passes on to the other.
Often I hear things about people, but I do not allow it to colour my opinion of the person in question.
We would not like to be put up on a pedestal and scrutinized for our actions, why do it to somebody else? Let people be, the way they are. Accept them for who they are and not how you picture them to be. Someone once quoted this beautiful saying by Mother Teresa : “If you judge people, you have no time to love them.”
So STOP JUDGING, START LOVING!!
Leaving you with a nice quote I found :
The Sunday Visitor